Lessons Learned This Year
I have some lessons that I learned while homeschooling my kids this year. These insights might help you, too.
This school year we started off with a pretty strict schedule, and I worked hard to ensure that we had school time every day. I was sticking to the curriculum, My Father’s World. I wanted to be sure that we covered everything. We got to work at 8 am and worked until 11 am with a snack in the middle of our schedule. We also had dance lessons, soccer practice, doctor appointments, Mom to Mom, and small group on top of maintaining our home and going to the gym. It was very intense, and we were all exhausted!
I learned my lesson a few months in. Nobody could maintain the rigid schedule I had set up, and homeschooling is supposed to be flexible. Besides, one of our goals this school year was for our children to work and play independently so that I would not have to constantly monitor them. I loosened up on our start time, so that the kids would have more time in the morning (their best time of day) to play together without my interference. I played around with when and where we did school work and streamlined a few things from our curriculum, especially on days when we had things going on outside of our home. I took a long look at the things that we were doing outside of school time and realized that those things really are considered school work, too. For example, we cook and experiment with recipes often, and I read to my kids all of the time. Even when we were not “officially” doing school work, my kids were engaged in educational experiences.
Our relaxed routine has helped me focus on other aspects of my children’s lives. I have been better able to help C6 with her sensory issues and anger management. I can help my kids process problems that come up between them. I can also model social behaviors that I want to see in my children’s interactions with others such as treating others the way you want to be treated, introducing yourself, introducing your friends to each other, and using good manners. These are issues that are as important if not more important than academics.
My lessons: 1) Be more flexible with your schedule and your curriculum. 2) Focus on what is important for your kids.
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