Dreamer in Need of Focus

I have been thinking about how the fall is fast approaching and I have done nothing to prepare for it. My office/school space is a disaster, and I have no idea where anything is. The kids are not cutting me a break either as they have been coming in and rifling through everything. My stuff is somewhere in all of these piles!

This summer we have had school in session on and off depending on vacation plans and what have you. It has been so great to have a really flexible schedule. (I know they are learning no matter what.) Starting this fall we are combining home school with a part-time Montessori school. (I have tons of paperwork to fill out for that!) I have not gotten my act together for our home school yet, though (At least I know part of what will be happening with school this fall.) What is keeping me from getting things in order?

I am a big picture kind of gal - a real dreamer. I love to think about all of the possibilities there are, but I find it hard to get down to the details. That is where I am right now. I am overwhelmed by the many things that we could do this school year, but I can’t seem to focus on what is important. I also can’t seem to find the time to get it all planned and organized either!

Are you in the same boat? Here are few things that have helped me in the past that you might find helpful, too:

1. Write down all of your ideas. Basically make a web of your ideas. It helps to be able to get it all out and see the possibilities. You will also have the ideas available for future reference.
2. Break the work down into little pieces. If you take one idea and make plans for it every day, you will feel more accomplished. You’ll even have something finished by the end of the day!
3. Ask the kids what they want to learn. You can use this as a starting point to get back into the groove of things. They will be more invested in what you are doing because it is based on their interests.
4. Establish some valuable school work that will run by itself. What I mean is find a few things that do not require daily or even weekly planning. For example, the children could have diaries that they write about anything they want in. They could have independent reading accompanied by book reviews they have to write. You don’t have to make any plans for this kind of work. The kids already know what is expected, and they do the work. Then you will have some time to do a little research, setting up, planning, etc instead of planning everything now.
5. Ask for help. Perhaps you have a friend who is more organized than you are. Friends who love order are great for this kind of task. They often really get into the project because it is what they love to do (and they often need to see the task to completion). Maybe your husband can help you out, too. Could he take on some extra responsibilities around the house to free you up? Could he do some preparation for the school year for you? Even if he is not around (traveling, etc.) maybe he can do a little research for you. He certainly can encourage you and help you get your head in the game!
6. Pray. It seems so simple, but God will help you in times of trouble, even if you think that the request is insignificant. I often forget to pray, but it is such an important thing to do.

I hope that this post helps you get back on track! Enjoy the last bit of summer, and I hope that the beginning of the school year goes well for you. Happy learning!

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